Dating!!

Kool question..am currently single,but i think being in love is the most beautiful feeling in the world..though,only if its genuine...
But then,yes,i agree with soumava,if i look at it 4m his point of view...

hm..dats wat they all say..Its us the third party who gets jacked..wat does he/she think of this/that.
Do u think blah blah blah
den u sit down-give a blow by blow account of THEIR meeting, conversation, message..................
SOS

Being along is interesting but being is rocking..

being single has its upsyd..the freedom feels gr8....bt the feeling of having sumone to hold ur hand..to love u...someone to talk in2 da nyt..sumone to whum u can confyd..is realy amazing
n abt being "being single =being on demand".... signifys dat singlehood ultimately ends in da quest of a commitment..ryt?
n lets nt evn talk abt certain cases of singlehood where u myt NOT BE "on demand"!!

commitment does not only means talking over nytes,holdin ur hand nd making love in some place else....
most surprisingly.i was not axpecting this kind of answer frm u srimoyi

nd "being single=being on demand" does not signify dat singlehood ultimately end the quest of commitment.
a person can still b on demand even if he/she is commited....take my exapmle in that case

i m nt saying dat commitment simply means all that definately no....commitment is a lot deeper.........bt wat i m saying is simply that...singledom maybe awsumly cool..bt definately nt a swansong to ur freedom........ commitment has its own beautiful feeling..wich u simply cannot express...wen evrything becums abt "us"...n not "i/me"...to think,feel..or evn sacrifice a part of ur lyf or tym...
so wud u say dat giving a little fo someone else whu wud do da same for u...is curtailing ur freedom??

" BE A SINGLE AND ALWAYS BE IN DEMAND "

THIS MANTRA WORKS FOR ME... I HAVE SAID IT FROM MY OWN EXPERIENCE ... SRIMOYI YOU ALSO SHARE YOUR EXPERIENCES AND YOUR VIEWS.... I HOPE YOU ARE TRULY COMMITED...

SOMETIMES IT ALSO HAPPENS THAT PEOPLE CLAIM TO HAVE A BOY FREIND OR GIRL FREIND BUT IT TURNS OUT TO BE A VIRTUAL ONE...SRIMOYI YOU MUST KNOW THIS...PEOPLE ALL DO THIS TO GATHER ATTENTION AND TO BE IN DEMAND

interestingly srimoyi has brot up the aspect of being single by chance n not by choice...that was a real truth...
to think that we shud only enter into relationships f there is a real love guarantee is silly...coz even real love has to stand the test of time...if u think u love someone enuff let ur feelings be expresssed...once into a rel if u do not sacrifice even real love does not keep u together...there r so many who cant live with or without each other...(listen to "without or without u" by U2).
so i think its best to enter into a rel when r almost sure its not infatuation...be hopeful,adjusting,sacrificing and always value the other persons presence in ur life...

everyone here makes it sound like being committed is like a torture you inflict on urself...i have been ommitted with someone for three years now.n i think its really nice..about being single and in demand,well i feel,my demand hasnt gone down yet!!!!!!!