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vatsal mittal



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PostSubject: Love!!!   Sat Aug 04, 2007 11:26 pm


LOVE

Love is a universal, immortal emotion. It is not a visible phenomenon. It can neither be analysed nor be dissected; it can only be experienced. Love remains an enigma even today. I have tried to explain it in the following passage:
We often confuse love with sex. Love is not for one who seeks pleasure; love is not a means to satisfy one's needs, aspirations and ambitions. Treating the beloved as an object for one's sexual gratification has often been prompted by films and other popular media images. This is not to say that sex is a sin or that sex should be kept away from love. On the contrary sexual attraction has more than often provided to be a stepping stone towards love. Sexual acts (including touching, caressing, kissing etc.) can be a means of expressing one's love. The important point, however, lies in the person's attitude. One can view the acts, on one hand, as the means of getting pleasure and, on the other hand, as a means of giving pleasure: as a way of expressing one's love. The diffrence between the two views lies as the diffrence between a loving intercourse and a rape. The former concentrates on giving without any consideration of getting back, whereas the latter focuses more on the selfish desire to snatch pleasure for oneself without giving away anything.
What baffles me the most is the fact that once a man loves a woman or vice versa, demands immediately enter, demands that require the lover to be perfect and this perfection intern demands for consumption of a part of mind and time. To flow and grow in love needs no perfection and no demands. Why should one drop all his/her limitations to prove to his/her lover that he/she is perfect for her/him. True love is that in which you expect nothing from your partner/lover. It involves transcending one's own self and giving, giving that satisfies your mind and soul, giving wothout the perception of getting anything in return.
One sees today an exhibitionist tendency in erotic love. It is almost a fashion to 'fall in love'. A school going teenager is under pressure from his peers to 'fall in love' with a suitable girl and vice versa. A girl-friend or a boy-friend intuitively becomes somewhat like an indispensable medal that one 'needs' to display prominently. Beauty, fashion, family, riches, good clothes and muscular body add to the value of the medal. The fashionable, exhibitionist display of love that one sees on Valentine's Day and in posh joints is an ignominy/disgrace, and is aptly called as falling in love. "True love involves no fall and is an elevating experience that raises one to a devine plane."


Feel free to express what you feel about the same, i give it to you now
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Sun Aug 05, 2007 1:06 am

"Just a thought of her makes me blush all red..... d best thing dat has ever happened to me..."
for me its life.......i guess itz impossible to be without it......
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vatsal mittal



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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Sun Aug 05, 2007 10:46 pm

m happy that atleast somebody is not shy of talking on this topic.....
none seem to be in love over here in this so called "virtual campus"
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Mon Aug 06, 2007 7:07 pm

Oyeeee leave it man.....havnt seen ur post in any other topic xcept dis......all dis luv- shuv is nt to be discussed here....
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Mon Aug 06, 2007 7:37 pm

LOVe!!!!!
a simple thing made complicated by complex fools....... bounce
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Mon Aug 06, 2007 8:39 pm

farao love is kuch kuch hota hai....... abe at present time the real meaning of love is not present.... the only thing that is present is affection........hehe I love you
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Mon Aug 06, 2007 8:40 pm

love is notthing now a days its only say like fashion
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Mon Aug 06, 2007 9:02 pm

well if it wasn't 4 love dis world wud hav blown up looooooooooooooong bak.......
dont u think so.??? Question
love n hope keeps us goin.... Smile Very Happy
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Mon Aug 06, 2007 9:12 pm

love is an undefinable four letter word and the meaning varies for each and every person Smile
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Mon Aug 06, 2007 9:16 pm

yup!! completely agree... every single person is different therefore his/her view on love will b different ..... Smile
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Mon Aug 06, 2007 9:20 pm

They are always different...... again they are always the same ... no matter how much we try to talk of being independent,individualistic.........somewhere down the line.... u just surrender yourself to a charm without which life seems to be meaningless!
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Mon Aug 06, 2007 9:36 pm

ya!! agree.... v all do succumb 2 d pressures of love...
but ders always d diference in opinion but d feelin always d same.. Smile
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vatsal mittal



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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Mon Aug 06, 2007 10:42 pm

yup......d feelin is alwyz d same 4 those who have love in their lives bt for d rest f 'em its "jus another brick in d wall"
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Tue Aug 07, 2007 12:18 pm

not necessarily.......
love comes in different forms.... so evry1 has love in their lives....
Smile
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Tue Aug 07, 2007 12:40 pm

A neccessity at some point in life...
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Tue Aug 07, 2007 12:43 pm

it is.... dats wats keeps us goin!!!! Smile
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Wed Aug 08, 2007 9:40 pm

my favourite quotes on love:

“If I never met you, I wouldn't like you. If I didn't like you, I wouldn't love you. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you. But I did, I do, and I will.”

“You may not love me today, tomorrow, or ever, but I will love you until it kills me, and, even then, you'll be in my heart.”

“People so seldom say I love you And then it's either too late or love goes. So when I tell you I love you, It doesn't mean I know you'll never go, Only that I wish you didn't have to.”

“But to see her was to love her, Love but her, and love forever”~ Robert Burns


and a fun one i can't resist : "Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love..." ~ Charlie Brown... i think everyone has identified with that at some point Razz
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Wed Aug 08, 2007 9:56 pm

love is nthng but a very complicated thng hmmmm itz jst wastage of emotion ,time ........ love is A major PAIN !!!!!!

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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Thu Aug 09, 2007 12:08 am

hey heena love may be a wastsge f time for some people bt it can't be a wastage f emotions......read wht i've written 'bou it carefully nd u'll understand wht i mean
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Fri Aug 10, 2007 6:12 pm

i think love is an unidentifiable emotion...luv is an emotion which evryone must exprience once....i luved him like anything.....luved him frm the bottom of my heart....even now when we two have parted our ways....i luv him...n dont know when i will stop luvng him......
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Fri Aug 10, 2007 6:20 pm

It's so damn strange! Somehow you lose your sense of judgement and reason and do thinks so stupid, something your friends might never make you do! You forgive and forget something you would have held a grudge on, if it was someone else!
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Fri Aug 10, 2007 7:30 pm

luv is craziness, doing things u enjoy n doing things u hate. don't hav first hand experience yet but hav seen enuf crazy frnds...


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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Sat Aug 11, 2007 1:16 am

happens by chance....dats xactly wat happened wid me.
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Sat Aug 11, 2007 11:32 am

love ....umm....emotional turbulence undefined by usual parameterz
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PostSubject: Re: Love!!!   Sun Aug 12, 2007 8:22 pm

i used to believe in it... bt nw i thnk love is jst a word used by big authors... i dnt believe in love
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