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PostSubject: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Fri Jul 27, 2007 12:11 am

Walking down the lane with a bag hanging down my shoulders to the level of a tired laborer after a hard day’s work, my mind was brimming with innumerable thoughts... some plain, some complex, some easy to decipher, some tough to understand, some less evident, some more hidden... varied kinds of thoughts and feelings were entangling my mind in every other way.

I was too busy living these thoughts to such an extent that I failed to notice a motorist hurling abuses at me for crossing the road when it was supposed to be a green light, a paradise for all the bikers and car drivers. But my eyes were too sharp enough to catch sight of a couple strolling down the way, hand in hand, arm in arm and eyes in eyes. Oh! What a scene... adding to my woes of thinking and pondering over little issues of life, one more thought popped up... Why do people exhibit their love and care for each other in public? Why the hell do they make the singletons feel inferior in front of them? This affection bound behavior in public... What’s the use of this? Can’t they get a life? If they love each other damn so much then why not go and make love in their own backyards rather than bugging the singles like me who are ready to mingle but cannot due to some laid down strict rules and regulations? I started to crack the reason behind this petty issue which carried a lot of weight in my life, at least for the time being!!!


The possibilities could be, according to me- Firstly the most thought of reason is that they just want to show the world their immense kindness and obligation towards each other that “Look, we are in a relation and we need to love each other. So let’s just get started wherever and whenever we get time off from our busy schedule. Even making out in public is not a bad idea.” Secondly, a mediocre reason probably they are too much in love with each other that they cannot see any thing apart from their partner on this earth. This can be fake and short lived most of the times because it is mostly dominated by lust and desire for physical love than a much more emotional understanding. Oh this reason is too complex to grasp. And lastly the least thought of reason is that they are suffering from the common syndrome called “BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND syndrome”. To increase your standing among your friends you make a boyfriend or a girlfriend... your friends start feeling jealous and subsequently your image begins to form as an experienced guy or girl who supposedly not only knows it al but has also done it all.


These possibilities are just possibilities and not concrete answer to my all the more concrete queries. At the end of it I am still clueless... I am still confused... I am still puzzled... I am still bamboozled.... so I continue to drift in my ‘thinking’ world.... which will come up with yet another thinking issue next time which will force you to put on your thinking cap!!!
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Fri Jul 27, 2007 1:01 am

Swati....u single?? u should have told me ya...wud have roped in sumoen for u...wat say? hehe
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Fri Jul 27, 2007 1:35 am

holding hand is not bout demonstrating ur love in public...its bout letting ur partner know dat u r no shy of showin ur affection in public...its bout saying dat u r there for ur partner doesnt matter if the world is against u or not....its bout socially accepting ur relationshp and sayin dat u r damn serious bout it...
and swati ..dats ur name rite??...u feel uncomfortable with ths public display of affection thng, then i ll tell u ths....why don u c it the other way around...think of them as best frnds...i mean i ve walked with mah best frnd hand holdin her hand in public.....and btw we both were single dat time...Smile....BUT...ths thng only holds true in case of holding hands and hugs and all.....nethng more than dat in public is a sick thng to do...
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Fri Jul 27, 2007 2:15 am

i swear man!!!!!
i hate my frenz who get "touchy" wid der boyfrens in public, holdin hands,n kissin n all!!!(eeeeeew!!!!!)
dey shud learn sum decency ma-hn.n wen i tell dem so,dey say i get jealous coz my boyfrens nt here.[/url]
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Fri Jul 27, 2007 6:20 pm

swati, i thnk its not reely abt public display of affection, sumtimes u r not selfconcious of wot ur doing in public... thts wot is called "love" my dear... i don wanna sound like a love sik puppy, or cheesy n mushy... but yes, sumtims ppl r not very concious of themselves... n they r just "themselves"...
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Fri Jul 27, 2007 9:31 pm

well well nikhita...............tu kuch kar sakti hain kay mera singledom ka dard door karne ke liye????????????lolzzzzzzzzzzzz

but sometimes its fun being single as well...................... Smile

kyun???????????????
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Fri Jul 27, 2007 9:35 pm

mandeep....... I feel holdinh hands in public is okay......... to an extent..........but when it crosses the limit then it completely cannot be tolerated.... n yeah my name is swati only dude!!!!!!!!!!!!

smriti..right I agree with you...getting touchy n stuff really is yukk.... n then the allegation that we poor singles get jealous is all the more bugging!!!!!!!!!

simran... yeah probably they do not realise that they are in public..........waooo wat mushy love making.......Smile thats why I cant stand it sometimes...*wink*wink*
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Fri Jul 27, 2007 9:38 pm

o then i tell u sumthng swati...next time u c sumthng like dat happeneing....go to them and start shouting......"abe kamino....ghar mein ma bhen nahi hai kya...besharam kahin ke...lol! "
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Fri Jul 27, 2007 9:48 pm

haan kar sakti hoon...i know tons of guys who'd love to date you....but agreed....BEING SINGLE SOOO ROXX!!
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Fri Jul 27, 2007 10:17 pm

Being single is fun... the sens of liberty is so just so great!! But then, a friend of mine had once said- no one would be single if he/she had an option to be engaged/commited... umm.. now I am still wondering if she was right!!
But yes, getting touchy in public deliberately could be just so irritating!!...
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Fri Jul 27, 2007 11:04 pm

@torsa- cudnt agree wid u any less babes!!!
Single is the way to be!!!WOO-HOO!!!!!

N ya,as for d touching-dude get a room!!!!!!
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Sat Jul 28, 2007 3:44 am

single is the way to be? ok, that cuming from sumone who's not single is quite shokking!!!!! but ya, ppl who really take it to "heights" have to be told their limits... for ppl like those... sumone else has to set the limits... ill be glad to be tht one for sum "lovebirds"!!!!!
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Sat Jul 28, 2007 2:32 pm

Singledom rox man.....newaz gettin in2 a relationship involves a lot of hassles....wat if the guy is a person with an archaic mindset..."oh dont talk to ur guy frnz...n al dta kindof shit"....touchy feely guys r such a big turnof newaz...n den again dey flood u wid al kindof senti smss:pig: .....holy shit....giv me a break.....nowadays havin a bf or a gf..is more of a ding u flaunt...n not sumbody u genuinely feel for....
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Sat Jul 28, 2007 10:11 pm

oyeee mandeeepppppppppppp kya dhasuu dialogueee diya hain yaar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I will surely try it the next time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Smile
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Sat Jul 28, 2007 10:13 pm

well all those who say singledom rockssssss are very correct!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am with them................................

and yeah swayamsiddha getting a bf or gf has become more of a show off thing than the involvement of genuine feelings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

why so??????????

batao yaar......................
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Sun Jul 29, 2007 7:20 pm

well..singledom really rocks!!!you are free to do anything and everything under the sun..common guys!!enjoy your life with your friends.Don't restrict your life to just one person..And as far as public display of affection is concerned.I think this should be in limits..one should be intelligent enough to draw the line.
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Tue Jul 31, 2007 2:54 pm

the extent to which u display this 'public display of affection' (very recently i understood zats wat pda stands for..i thot it was sum kinda disease!) essentially depends on the place u stay.....seriously culture has a lot to do with this....u go to the US or UK oreven hong-kong, kissing, holding hands, whispering swee-nothings and all zat crap is very normal and very common there....here, our culture doesnt appreciate it....nothing right or wrong abt it...just a matter of our own perception and upbringing

so wen in love, do wat lovers do but never forget that 'romans' have a say too!Wink

as for singledome.....yer free to eat what u want...ur free to meet who u want...ur free to sleep wen u want...ur not obliged to anyone....ur free to go where u want...ur just freee to beee....ud be crazy not to enjoy it!!!!
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Tue Jul 31, 2007 11:12 pm

yea supi..i vry well undrstand u sayin diz now... Wink


ohkie me dnt hav nythin against d couples snuglling wid each oder... dey're jst in lov n sd'nt care bout ppl...its such a shrewd society wher dey r luked down upon by d cops damn dey arent aliens..just 2 soulz happy 2gtr...

nd yeah nuthin can match bein singllllllleeeeeee...man itz jus so carefree,,,jus lik a bird,,travellin up the sky before findin a nest fr itslef!
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Thu Aug 02, 2007 3:06 am

SINGLESSSSSSSSSSSSS ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well agree with you culture too has an upper hand in this whole stuff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just that our culture doesnt allow these stuffs or doesnt consider these stuffs as decent!!! we must respect our culture n understand its limitationss completely!!!!!!!
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Thu Aug 02, 2007 3:28 am

its best to stay single at this age...enjoy the freedom..as usually the majority bit of life is spent as committed (married)..
i think the age 18-25..is THE time to enjoy..obviously earn, work etc should be there..but crying, being suppressed n sacrificing should definately not arise at this age..
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Thu Aug 02, 2007 12:32 pm

well i have nothing to say abt ppl cuddling up and whatsoever in the public but yea i would like to comment on ppl going around for the sake of showing off or making other ppl jealous....A heavy % come under this category.... Im sure all of us come across such wannabes..

hey talk abt going out ...there are ppl who want to be friends with a good looking person just to swank ...ewwwww i cant stand them !!!!

common being committed is not so bad !!!! no ones chaining you up ....it depends from person to person !!!

choose the rite one and trust me life rocks!!! Wink
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Thu Aug 02, 2007 4:48 pm

welll it all depends on dat bfr gfr though i hav seen couples gettin cosy in metro...eeekkkksssss
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Thu Aug 02, 2007 4:49 pm

acha forgot 2 mention dat bache like us and sm uncle aunties do try 2 look somewhr else but no use...... Shocked Shocked
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Thu Aug 02, 2007 9:57 pm

Totally gross!!dude get a room!!!!
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PostSubject: Re: BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND SYNDROME!!!   Fri Aug 03, 2007 1:30 am

i knw i agree wid smriti,,such couples r juz desperate!!
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